I know that at times it’s hard to focus on the positives when you are going through a negative situation but you must! When you are dealing with a bad situation, being negative about it, sad and mopey won’t do anything for you. It will only trigger more negative energy. Focusing on how to resolve the situation you are in, you will see opportunities you never even knew were there. Whatever you project into the universe, it will return back to you. It takes practice,  I know this first hand but it is possible!